Adding slight pressure with your thumb for 60 seconds helps relieve the tension in your partner. (I wouldn't do that to you…just yet.) The Third Eye is a pressure point located in the middle of the forehead. You can do this on their head, too, starting at the back of their neck.' 2. 'Pulling this way stimulates the nerve endings without giving that stingy hair-pulling feel. Tug, starting gently,' says Kait Scalisi, sex educator and founder of. 'Want to really drive them wild? Place your hand flat on their lower chest or belly and, keeping your palm on their skin, run it up their chest until you have a handful of hair. The area is more sensitive than you think, and he'll love you running your fingers through it. If your guy has chest hair, you might as well play with it.